Spencer Matthews EXCLUSIVE: 'I suppose I'm punching!': 星/主役にする 明らかにする/漏らすs marrying Vogue Williams was 必然的な and discusses fatherhood changing his life for the better

Spencer Matthews has 明らかにする/漏らすd marrying his wife Vogue Williams was 必然的な as they had so much in ありふれた.

The 31-year-old 星/主役にする 収容する/認めるs he had no 疑問s about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, and starting a family with because she made him want to give up his ‘selfish’ lifestyle.

The former Made In Chelsea favourite, who has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event, chatted to MailOnline about their family life with son Theodore, 18 months, his best friend Hugo Taylor becoming a dad and how he turned his 支援する on drinking to create a low-alcohol brand.

Festive fun: Spencer Matthews chatted to MailOnline about his love for wife Vogue Williams and their family life. The star 
has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event this Sunday 8 December

Festive fun: Spencer Matthews chatted to MailOnline about his love for wife Vogue Williams and their family life. The 星/主役にする has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event this Sunday 8 December?

以前は known for his Lothario lifestyle and famous exes, things changed 劇的な for Spencer when he met Vogue while competing on reality show The Jump in 2017.

Now parents to little Theodore and recently celebrating their love with a second wedding party, Spencer can’t believe how much his life has changed ? for the better.

Discussing becoming a family man, Spencer said: ‘I was always pretty selfish. Vogue and I weren’t looking for a serious 関係 at the time we met and I think that’s probably part of the 推論する/理由 why we became so の近くに as friends first. It made sense.

‘I recognised a lot of Vogue in me and 副/悪徳行為 versa. We fit, we were very 両立できる together - even my mum t hinks we’re 類似の! She’s my best mate. When Vogue (機の)カム around, that was me done.

'I honestly don’t think anyone should put a timeline on it ? getting it wrong is way wrong than settling it at a later date. Even some of my male friends are panicking about settling 負かす/撃墜する.?

'When Vogue came around, that was me done': The 31-year-old star admits he had no doubts about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, because she made him want to give up his ?selfish? lifestyle

'When Vogue (機の)カム around, that was me done': The 31-year-old 星/主役にする 収容する/認めるs he had no 疑問s about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, because she made him want to give up his ‘selfish’ lifestyle

Devoted dad: Now parents to little Theodore, 18 months, Spencer can?t believe how much his life has changed ? for the better

充てるd dad: Now parents to little Theodore, 18 months, Spencer can’t believe how much his life has changed ? for the better

‘[When you 会合,会う The One] all of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but 最終的に Vogue and Theodore are what 事柄s.'?

Poor Spencer 明らかにする/漏らすs he’s always told that he’s a lucky man ? even by 完全にする strangers ? and has finally 受託するd his 運命/宿命.

‘I would argue that Vogue is lucky 同様に’, he joked. ‘I was getting off a flight, half asleep, and the lady just went, “You are so lucky. Your wife, she’s amazing.”

‘I’ve understood now that I’m supposed to socially 受託する that I’m the lucky one. I suppose I’d rather be punching rather than not! It’s a good thing, 権利?’

The pair tied the knot in the presence of family at Spencer's 素晴らしい 10,000-acre family 広い地所, Glen Affric, in Cannich, Scotland.

Family man: ?All of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but ultimately [Vogue and Theodore] are what matters'

Family man: ‘All of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but 最終的に [Vogue and Theodore] are what 事柄s'

He said of his wife: ?I?ve understood now that I?m supposed to socially accept that I?m the lucky one. I suppose I?d rather be punching rather than not! It?s a good thing, right??

He said of his wife: ‘I’ve understood now that I’m supposed to socially 受託する that I’m the lucky one. I suppose I’d rather be punching rather than not! It’s a good thing, 権利?’

But this summer, they enjoyed a second wedding 歓迎会 in London in 前線 of their の近くに friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife.

Spencer said: ‘The real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we 現実に got married and it will always 持つ/拘留する a very special place in my heart.

‘This wedding was for our friends ? Vogue is far more popular than me and had hundreds of friends who felt hard done by, it was just an excuse to have a party really.

‘For Vogue it was a different 取引,協定. She got to wear everything, dance, have fun and drink, 反して the first time around she was very ひどく 妊娠している.’

In 出席 at the second 祝賀 was one of his oldest friends Hugo Taylor and his wife Millie Mackintosh, who recently 確認するd they are 推定する/予想するing their first child.

Second wedding: This summer, Vogue and Spencer enjoyed a second wedding reception in London in front of their close friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife, who was heavily pregnant at their wedding last year

Second wedding: This summer, Vogue and Sp encer enjoyed a second wedding 歓迎会 in London in 前線 of their の近くに friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife, who was ひどく 妊娠している at their wedding last year?

Memories: Spencer said, ?The real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we actually got married and it will always hold a very special place in my heart (pictured with MIC star Jamie Laing)

Memories: Spencer said, ‘The real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we 現実に got married and it will always 持つ/拘留する a very special place in my heart (pictured with MIC 星/主役にする Jamie Laing)

They have come a long way from the trio’s 演劇-fuelled Made In Chelsea debut and Spencer says he couldn’t be happier for the couple - and is thrilled Theodore will be getting a little playmate.

He enthused: ‘It’s the next step for them, it’s lovely news. Theodore can have a young pal in Hugo’s daughter. I think it will be wonderful for them, they will be fantastic parents.’

Keen to move on from his reality show debut, Spencer and Vogue have starred in their own successful reality show on E4, which has seen the pair 伸び(る) a new legion of fans thanks to their sarcastic banter.

He explained: ‘I started TV when I was 20, I'm 31 now, plenty of years on the box, bad luck テレビ視聴者s! For me it was an 適切な時期 to really be myself and not be 押し進めるd into storylines or 伴う/関わるd in other people’s 商売/仕事 even if you don’t want to be.

Best buddies: A long way from their Made In Chelsea debut, Spencer says he couldn?t be happier for Millie Mackintosh and Hugo Taylor having their first child - and is thrilled Theodore will have a little playmate

Best buddies: A long way from their Made In Chelsea debut, Spencer says he couldn’t be happier for Millie Mackintosh and Hugo Taylor having their first child - and is thrilled Theodore will have a little playmate

Going sober: Elsewhere, Spencer has been hard at work launching his business, the Clean Liquor Company

Going sober: どこかよそで, Spencer has been hard at work 開始する,打ち上げるing his 商売/仕事, the Clean アルコール飲料 Company

‘It was an 適切な時期 for me and my wife to create a bit of comedy, not fuelled by 演劇 and have a play with a different genre of television. For me it’s a 完全に different 職業.’

どこかよそで, Spencer has been hard at work 開始する,打ち上げるing his low-alcohol 商売/仕事, the Clean アルコール飲料 Company, which has 原因(となる)d a real buzz in the 産業 and is 始める,決める to be rolled out into hundreds of Sainsburies 蓄える/店s this January.

The TV personality gave up drinking すぐに after becoming a father after deciding his habits were becoming 中毒の, and is now fully 焦点(を合わせる)d on staying healthy and hangover-解放する/自由な.?

Quizzed whether he 行方不明になるs drinking, he said: ‘Not at all, I’ve been sober about 18 months now. Alcohol, drinking 十分な strength アルコール飲料 at least, is a think of the past for me.

‘We’re nearly the most followed low alcohol company on Instagram in the world and it’s going to be a 抱擁する 全世界の brand.?

Story time: Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive cheer this Christmas, revealing he is actively trying to encourage story time among families

Story time: Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive 元気づける this Christmas, 明らかにする/漏らすing he is 活発に trying to encourage story time の中で families

'People who want to drink いっそう少なく or not at all have 選択s, it’s incredibly exciting that people 株 my 見解(をとる)s.’

Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive 元気づける this Christmas, 明らかにする/漏らすing he is 活発に trying to encourage story time の中で families.

Discussing his festive 計画(する)s with Theodore, Spencer enthused: ‘It’ll be our second Christmas with him. He’s a real little boy now, he’s so 十分な of emotion and character, it’ll be a 完全に different experience this year.

‘Christmas is all about festivity, family, 存在 together, reading stories and entertaining one another. We’ll make our own traditions now. 存在 a new father it’s so special to be 伴う/関わるd in 事業/計画(する)s like this.’

Spencer will be in 蓄える/店 at Argos’s Tottenham 法廷,裁判所 Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am.

Any 顧客s that 行方不明になる the events can watch Spencer reading the stories on argos.co.uk from Monday 9 December.

Come along: Spencer will be in store at Argos?s Tottenham Court Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am

Come along: Spencer will be in 蓄える/店 at Argos’s Tottenham 法廷,裁判所 Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am

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