Spencer Matthews EXCLUSIVE: 'I suppose I'm punching!': À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë ÌÀ¤é¤«¤Ë¤¹¤ë¡¿Ï³¤é¤¹s marrying Vogue Williams was ɬÁ³Åª¤Ê and discusses fatherhood changing his life for the better

Spencer Matthews has ÌÀ¤é¤«¤Ë¤¹¤ë¡¿Ï³¤é¤¹d marrying his wife Vogue Williams was ɬÁ³Åª¤Ê as they had so much in ¤¢¤ê¤Õ¤ì¤¿.

The 31-year-old À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë ¼ýÍƤ¹¤ë¡¿Ç§¤á¤ës he had no µ¿Ìäs about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, and starting a family with because she made him want to give up his ¡Æselfish¡Ç lifestyle.

The former Made In Chelsea favourite, who has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event, chatted to MailOnline about their family life with son Theodore, 18 months, his best friend Hugo Taylor becoming a dad and how he turned his »Ù±ç¤¹¤ë on drinking to create a low-alcohol brand.

Festive fun: Spencer Matthews chatted to MailOnline about his love for wife Vogue Williams and their family life. The star has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event this Sunday 8 December

Festive fun: Spencer Matthews chatted to MailOnline about his love for wife Vogue Williams and their family life. The À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë has teamed up with Argos for a festive storytelling event this Sunday 8 December?

°ÊÁ°¤Ï known for his Lothario lifestyle and famous exes, things changed ·àŪ¤Ê for Spencer when he met Vogue while competing on reality show The Jump in 2017.

Now parents to little Theodore and recently celebrating their love with a second wedding party, Spencer can¡Çt believe how much his life has changed ? for the better.

Discuss ing becoming a family man, Spencer said: ¡ÆI was always pretty selfish. Vogue and I weren¡Çt looking for a serious ´Ø·¸ at the time we met and I think that¡Çs probably part of the ¿äÏÀ¤¹¤ë¡¿Íýͳ why we became so ¤Î¶á¤¯¤Ë as friends first. It made sense.

¡ÆI recognised a lot of Vogue in me and Éû¡¿°­ÆÁ¹Ô°Ù versa. We fit, we were very ξΩ¤Ç¤­¤ë together - even my mum thinks we¡Çre Îà»÷¤Î! She¡Çs my best mate. When Vogue ¡Êµ¡¤Î¡Ë¥«¥à around, that was me done.

'I honestly don¡Çt think anyone should put a timeline on it ? getting it wrong is way wrong than settling it at a later date. Even some of my male friends are panicking about settling É餫¤¹¡¿·âÄƤ¹¤ë.?

'When Vogue came around, that was me done': The 31-year-old star admits he had no doubts about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, because she made him want to give up his ?selfish? lifestyle

'When Vogue ¡Êµ¡¤Î¡Ë¥«¥à around, that was me done': The 31-year-old À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë ¼ýÍƤ¹¤ë¡¿Ç§¤á¤ës he had no µ¿Ìäs about tying the knot with the Irish presenter, 34, because she made him want to give up his ¡Æselfish¡Ç lifestyle

Devoted dad: Now parents to little Theodore, 18 months, Spencer can?t believe how much his life has changed ? for the better

½¼¤Æ¤ëd dad: Now parents to little Theodore, 18 months, Spencer can¡Çt believe how much his life has changed ? for the better

¡Æ[When you ²ñ¹ç¡¤²ñ¤¦ The One] all of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but ºÇ½ªÅª¤Ë Vogue and Theodore are what »öÊÁs.'?

Poor Spencer ÌÀ¤é¤«¤Ë¤¹¤ë¡¿Ï³¤é¤¹s he¡Çs always told that he¡Çs a lucky man ? even by ´°Á´¤Ë¤¹¤ë strangers ? and has finally ¼õÂ÷¤¹¤ëd his ±¿Ì¿¡¿½ÉÌ¿.

¡ÆI would argue that Vogue is lucky ƱÍͤˡÇ, he joked. ¡ÆI was getting off a flight, half asleep, and the lady just went, ¡ÈYou are so lucky. Your wife, she¡Çs amazing.¡É

¡ÆI¡Çve understood now that I¡Çm supposed to socially ¼õÂ÷¤¹¤ë that I¡Çm the lucky one. I suppose I¡Çd rather be punching rather than not! It¡Çs a good thing, ¸¢Íø?¡Ç

The pair tied the knot in the presence of family at Spencer's ÁÇÀ²¤é¤·¤¤ 10,000-acre family ¹­¤¤ÃϽê, Glen Affric, in Cannich, Scotland.

Family man: ?All of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but ultimately [Vogue and Theodore] are what matters'

Family man: ¡ÆAll of a sudden, you want to put other people first. Of course you think about yourself and your work, but ºÇ½ªÅª¤Ë [Vogue and Theodore] are what »öÊÁs'

He said of his wife: ?I?ve understood now that I?m supposed to socially accept that I?m the lucky one. I suppose I?d rather be punching rather than not! It?s a good thing, right??

He said of his wife: ¡ ÆI¡Çve understood now that I¡Çm supposed to socially ¼õÂ÷¤¹¤ë that I¡Çm the lucky one. I suppose I¡Çd rather be punching rather than not! It¡Çs a good thing, ¸¢Íø?¡Ç

But this summer, they enjoyed a second wedding ´¿·Þ²ñ in London in Á°Àþ of their ¤Î¶á¤¯¤Ë friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife.

Spencer said: ¡ÆThe real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we ¸½¼Â¤Ë got married and it will always »ý¤Ä¡¿¹´Î±¤¹¤ë a very special place in my heart.

¡ÆThis wedding was for our friends ? Vogue is far more popular than me and had hundreds of friends who felt hard done by, it was just an excuse to have a party really.

¡ÆFor Vogue it was a different ¼è°ú¡¤¶¨Äê. She got to wear everything, dance, have fun and drink, È¿¤·¤Æ the first time around she was very ¤Ò¤É¤¯ Ç¥¿±¤·¤Æ¤¤¤ë.¡Ç

In ½ÐÀÊ at the second ½Ë²ì was one of his oldest friends Hugo Taylor and his wife Millie Mackintosh, who recently ³Îǧ¤¹¤ëd they are ¿äÄꤹ¤ë¡¿Í½ÁÛ¤¹¤ëing their first child.

Second wedding: This summer, Vogue and Spencer enjoyed a second wedding reception in London in front of their close friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife, who was heavily pregnant at their wedding last year

Second wedding: This summer, Vogue and Spencer enjoyed a second wedding ´¿·Þ²ñ in London in Á°Àþ of their ¤Î¶á¤¯¤Ë friends and wider family, which Spencer says meant a lot to his wife, who was ¤Ò¤É¤¯ Ç¥¿±¤·¤Æ¤¤¤ë at their wedding last year?

Memories: Spencer said, ?The real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we actually got married and it will always hold a very special place in my heart (pictured with MIC star Jamie Laing)

Memories: Spencer said, ¡ÆThe real wedding was far more special for me, it was the day we ¸½¼Â¤Ë got married and it will always »ý¤Ä¡¿¹´Î±¤¹¤ë a very special place in my heart (pictured with MIC À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë Jamie Laing)

They have come a long way from the tri o¡Çs ±é·à-fuelled Made In Chelsea debut and Spencer says he couldn¡Çt be happier for the couple - and is thrilled Theodore will be getting a little playmate.

He enthused: ¡ÆIt¡Çs the next step for them, it¡Çs lovely news. Theodore can have a young pal in Hugo¡Çs daughter. I think it will be wonderful for them, they will be fantastic parents.¡Ç

Keen to move on from his reality show debut, Spencer and Vogue have starred in their own successful reality show on E4, which has seen the pair ¿­¤Ó¡Ê¤ë¡Ë a new legion of fans thanks to their sarcastic banter.

He explained: ¡ÆI started TV when I was 20, I'm 31 now, plenty of years on the box, bad luck ¥Æ¥ì¥Ó»ëÄ°¼Ôs! For me it was an ŬÀڤʻþ´ü to really be myself and not be ²¡¤·¿Ê¤á¤ëd into storylines or ȼ¤¦¡¿´Ø¤ï¤ëd in other people¡Çs ¾¦Çä¡¿»Å»ö even if you don¡Çt want to be.

Best buddies: A long way from their Made In Chelsea debut, Spencer says he couldn?t be happier for Millie Mackintosh and Hugo Taylor having their first child - and is thrilled Theodore will have a little playmate

Best buddies: A long way from their Made In Chelsea debut, Spence r says he couldn¡Çt be happier for Millie Mackintosh and Hugo Taylor having their first child - and is thrilled Theodore will have a little playmate

Going sober: Elsewhere, Spencer has been hard at work launching his business, the Clean Liquor Company

Going sober: ¤É¤³¤«¤è¤½¤Ç, Spencer has been hard at work ³«»Ï¤¹¤ë¡¤ÂǤÁ¾å¤²¤ëing his ¾¦Çä¡¿»Å»ö, the Clean ¥¢¥ë¥³¡¼¥ë°ûÎÁ Company

¡ÆIt was an ŬÀڤʻþ´ü for me and my wife to create a bit of comedy, not fuelled by ±é·à and have a play with a different genre of television. For me it¡Çs a ´°Á´¤Ë different ¿¦¶È.¡Ç

¤É¤³¤«¤è¤½¤Ç, Spencer has been hard at work ³«»Ï¤¹¤ë¡¤ÂǤÁ¾å¤²¤ëing his low-alcohol ¾¦Çä¡¿»Å»ö, the Clean ¥¢¥ë¥³¡¼¥ë°ûÎÁ Company, which has ¸¶°ø¡Ê¤È¤Ê¤ë¡Ëd a real buzz in the »º¶È and is »Ï¤á¤ë¡¤·è¤á¤ë to be rolled out into hundreds of Sainsburies Ãߤ¨¤ë¡¿Å¹s this January.

The TV personality gave up drinking ¤¹¤°¤Ë after becoming a father after deciding his habits were becoming ÃæÆǤÎ, and is now fully ¾ÇÅÀ¡Ê¤ò¹ç¤ï¤»¤ë¡Ëd on staying healthy and hangover-²òÊü¤¹¤ë¡¿¼«Í³¤Ê.?

Quizzed whether he ¹ÔÊýÉÔÌÀ¤Ë¤Ê¤ës drinking, he said: ¡ÆNot at all, I¡Çve been sober about 18 months now. Alcohol, drinking ½½Ê¬¤Ê strength ¥¢¥ë¥³¡¼¥ë°ûÎÁ at least, is a think of the past for me.

¡ÆWe¡Çre nearly the most followed low alcohol company on Instagram in the world and it¡Çs going to be a ÊúÍʤ¹¤ë Á´À¤³¦¤Î brand.?

Story time: Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive cheer this Christmas, revealing he is actively trying to encourage story time among families

Story time: Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive ¸µµ¤¤Å¤±¤ë this Christmas, ÌÀ¤é¤«¤Ë¤¹¤ë¡¿Ï³¤é¤¹ing he is ³èȯ¤Ë trying to encourage story time ¤ÎÃæ¤Ç families

'People who want to drink ¤¤¤Ã¤½¤¦¾¯¤Ê¤¯ or not at all have ÁªÂòs, it¡Çs incredibly exciting that people ³ô my ¸«²ò¡Ê¤ò¤È¤ë¡Ës.¡Ç

Spencer has teamed up with Argos to help spread some festive ¸µµ¤¤Å¤±¤ë this Christmas, ÌÀ¤é¤«¤Ë¤¹¤ë¡¿Ï³¤é¤¹ing he is ³èȯ¤Ë trying to encourage story time ¤ÎÃæ¤Ç families.

Discussing his festive ·×²è¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ës with Theodore, Spencer enthused: ¡ÆIt¡Çll be our second Christmas with him. He¡Çs a real little boy now, he¡Çs so ½½Ê¬¤Ê of emotion and character, it¡Çll be a ´°Á´¤Ë different experience this year.

¡ÆChristmas is all about festivity, family, ¸ºß together, reading stories and entertaining one another. We¡Çll make our own tr aditions now. ¸ºß a new father it¡Çs so special to be ȼ¤¦¡¿´Ø¤ï¤ëd in »ö¶È¡¿·×²è¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ës like this.¡Ç

Spencer will be in Ãߤ¨¤ë¡¿Å¹ at Argos¡Çs Tottenham Ë¡ÄºÛȽ½ê Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am.

Any ¸ÜµÒs that ¹ÔÊýÉÔÌÀ¤Ë¤Ê¤ë the events can watch Spencer reading the stories on argos.co.uk from Monday 9 December.

Come along: Spencer will be in store at Argos?s Tottenham Court Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am

Come along: Spencer will be in Ãߤ¨¤ë¡¿Å¹ at Argos¡Çs Tottenham Ë¡ÄºÛȽ½ê Road in London on Sunday 8 December between 9.00am ? 11.30am

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